The reason makeup makes men respond to women they want to know so strongly... is because they feel like they see the "real" you when you stop wearing it around them. When you want to attract a man, wear makeup. When you want him to bond to you, wear a tinted sunblock, lash-serum, and a uv lip balm. Progress to no makeup at all, and see if he even notices. If he's in love, he thinks of this as one of those things in life that only he can access.